"I don't want to hurt you" // "Well you can't 'cause I'm already dead"

In a dream I'm in a session of therapy with a woman that I can only describe as Goldfrapp with more flowing (Shannon-ish....) brown hair. She is trying to slowly pick apart my head but suddenly bride's maids and groomsman and suited and dressed men and women are parading through the many doors surrounding us. She leads the session into a very fancy bathroom, where suddenly she seems to be very flirtacious in her analysis; very whimsy and nearly stumbling into me twice, the latter instance nearly leading to an unplanned romantic moment before she sits atop the dual sink and continues with questions. The surroundings/tones continue on their Woody Allen film-esque path, I keep getting the impression that she is trying to seduce me into this off topic small talk so as to keep the minute and hour hands spinning as handfulls of people cycle in and out. She very matter-of-factly askes me what I think 'life' is. Before forming any sort of answer to the question she asks the only other person in the room, an elderly woman "what sort of adjustments have you made as your life has gone on?"

She replied "I havn't made adjustments, life adjusts me". I woke up right then.

What does that last bit mean?